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Does it seem like the things you say often cause offense? Are you having trouble getting people to respond to your requests? If so, maybe people are percieving that your English isn't polite. Learn how to avoid being rude with this great guide!
Can you pass me...? vs Give me... People do not like being told what to do, so it's sometimes difficult to get what you want without causing frustration. Replace phrases that sound like commands, such as "Give me the newspaper", with a request like "Can you pass me the newspaper?" Could you give me five minutes? vs Go away. You're really busy at work, but your coworker needs your help... When you're busy and can't attend to anything else, just saying "Go away" is definitely not appropriate. Instead, keep everyone happy by using the phrase "Could you give me five minutes?" Excuse me. vs Move. Telling someone to "Move out of the way" is extremely rude and is likely going to get you a very negative reaction. The next time someone is in your way, saying "Excuse me" will get the result you want without causing offense! I'm afraid I can't. vs No. It can often be difficult to decline an invitation from a friend. Simply saying "No" would be considered impolite. The next time you have to refuse an invitation, avoid offense by saying, "I'm afraid I can't." I would like... vs I want... It's often considered rude to request something using the words, "I want". Instead of, "I want a cup of coffee", try telling a waiter, "I’d like a cup of coffee, please". You'll get your coffee and a smile, too! Would you mind...? vs Stop it! Someone doing something you don't like, and perhaps being rude? Would you like them to stop? To get the desired result, rather than shouting "Stop talking on your phone in the cinema!", ask them politely by saying, "Would you mind not using your phone in the cinema, please?" Can you hold, please? vs Wait. Choosing the correct level of politeness on the telephone can mean the difference between a constructive conversation and no conversation at all. If a caller asks to speak with someone else, don't say, "Wait". Instead, politely ask, "Can you hold, please?" __________________ |
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[align=center]wOoOoOoOoOw
what a nice topic God bless u dear thnx alot[/align] |
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I like your topic, it's very useful, but there is another problem we encounter, and maybe you've been through it too. Have you ever tried to translate your english to arabic to family or friends, and they just look at you like, what on earth you're talking about??? Well, that's my problem, translating English to Arabic sometimes can be offensive to the point they'd think I'm insulting them, especially if they don't speak english. Right? Thank you again
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[blink]اللهم ما أصبح بي من نعمة, أو بأحد من خلقك, فمنك وحدك لا شريك لك, فلك الحمد و لك الشكر....[/blink] |
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thank you for your comments, i am very glad to hear from you
thank you, thank you very much nggod
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Thanx alot to you , all
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[align=center]دانة الكويت, hi
These expressions can really make a difference We can get a totally different respond if we use them instead of the "rude" ones thanks dana for the nice topic[/align] |
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thank you 4 reading my topic
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[align=center]i really interst with your topic it is very nice one thank you very much for this clearfication[/align]
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